Which is why you need to remember to, occasionally, take a long shower. Put on the stereo. Get your nails done. Eat a little chocolate even though you haven’t lost all the weight yet. Ask another mom to watch your little one so you can take half an hour in the supermarket alone and offer to do the same for her. Get to a new moms’ group so you can meet some cool other people. Close the door for some privacy while you pee. Etc.